Forgiveness is such a powerful thing.
But sometimes in life, we manage to forgive the wrong people. Sometimes, we are tied closely to people who hurt us or who wrong us and we think that by forgiving them, we can move forward, fix that hurt and have some closure.
For the past almost two years, my life has been a rollercoaster, I have been up and down, in and out of unnecessary arguments, trying to make amends with people who really I shouldn’t try with because; them people just do not care.
From my expierence, forgiveness is changing me. Accepting apoligies of people who have hurt me, forgiving those who never apoligised or never asked to be forgiven, letting go of what has happened.
It’s not easy, and not all stories are the same. Sometimes forgiving people is hard, maybe a little too hard, but in order to move on from the past and look forward to your future is by letting go and getting over it.
So in a way, I am grateful to those who have wronged me, who have killed me inside and made me out to be a person I am not, who have played games contiously with my life and my other half, but most of all, I want to say thankyou – because if it wasn’t for you, I wouldn’t be getting my life back together and becoming stronger every single day.
There is no point holding a grudge anymore. I forgive you.